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This wild love story will carry on

Hey friends, I wrote this post for Velvet Ashes. At VA we’ve had our annual three week series for people who will be changing an assignment and moving, people who will be re-entering their passport country, and people who will be carrying on.

Carry on main

When I signed up to write this post a clear image came to mind.

In my mind’s eye, I was walking behind a woman who was on a narrow dusty path, wide enough for one person. Over her shoulders was a long pole with a can of water hanging off of each side. She was carrying on.

I loved the symbolism of carrying water because water sustains life and brings Living Water to thirsty souls.

It was such a lovely picture. After talking about change and re-entry, my soul was ready for less upheaval internally. One foot in front of the other. Step after ordinary step. Familiar paths, familiar teammates, familiar cities and markets. Familiar sounded good.

Wasn’t carrying on supposed to be a lovely picture? Familiar? Calming? Idealized?!

Wait, what?!

Ah, there’s the rub. I tend to see the pain and joy of the path I’m on, yet only the joy of your path. This carrying on is as varied as any other path. It can be glorious or discouraging, exciting or a bit dull. Thankfully, we have not been left without encouragement and models. We join a long line of people who knew what it was to carry on.

We join:

Daniel who was thrown to his death by people who were jealous and didn’t want him to succeed . . . and yet he didn’t die. From Daniel we learn to carry on after false accusations and a traumatic and dramatic experience.

Jesus who spent time in the desert preparing for the next phase of his calling. After time alone with God (and the Accuser) he returned to society and built a team. From him we see a model of carrying on after a period of preparation.

Moses who lead a group of people who were not easy to lead or the most supportive of him. From Moses we learn to carry on for the long haul and to listen to One, not many.

David who had to carry on in both his role as king and in his family when his sin of sleeping with Bathsheba cost many greatly, some even paying with their lives. From David we learn how to carry on after we have sinned.

Leah who felt unloved by her husband and jealous of her sister. From Leah, we learn that carrying on may require us to find our satisfaction only in God.

Joseph who was treated unjustly by his brothers, potiphar’s wife, and the cupbearer. From Joseph we learn that carrying on may involve years and that God keeps his word.

Naomi who suffered through famine and the death of her husband and sons. From Naomi we learn what it means to carry on when hope seems lost.

Ruth who served her mother-in-law as she fulfilled the commitment she made by carrying on in a new land. From Ruth we learn that carrying on can result in unforeseen and eternal blessing.

Caleb who spent years with Moses and the Israelites as they wandered in the desert before the time came to hand the mantle over to him. From Caleb we learn that carrying on can involved the end of an apprenticeship as responsibility is handed to you.

Abraham who was asked to sacrifice his own son and did not know if a substitute was going to be provided. From Abraham we learn that carrying on involves the mysteriousness of following a God who cannot be reduced to a formula.

Isaiah  who at one point was told by God to walk around naked and barefoot for three years as a sign of the troubles to be brought against Egypt and Ethiopia. From Isaiah and other prophets we learn to carry on when it seems no one is interested in listening.

Mary who watched her son be unjustly accused, tried, and executed. From Mary we learn to carry on in seasons of deep loss and grief.

Paul and Barnabas who had a ministry disagreement and after parting ways each took on a ministry mentee in Silas and John Mark. From them we learn that disagreements happen and the work can carry on. We also learn to that carrying on involves building into the next generation.

Carrying on 

is for those in loss,

it can feel mundane in the day-to-day,

it can involve new opportunities and challenges,

it can get lost in the bigger picture,

it can paradoxically be familiar and foreign at the same time,

it needs to be anchored in who we are, not what we do,

but above all else, it reminds us that this wild love story between a Creator and his creation, beginning before time, will carry on.

~~~

God uses his word in so many ways to encourage and instruct us. Which Biblical character do you relate to most in this season?

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8 Comments June 3, 2016

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My name is Amy and I live in the messy middle of life. I have been Redeemed from permanent muck and live with the tension of the Already and Not Yet.

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  1. Ruthie says

    June 3, 2016 at 9:26 am

    Amy, thank you for this post! I love how you spotlighted the different Biblical characters and how they carried on…through a lot, and yet each, we are confident, received an eternal reward. That helps me to “carry on” when life becomes monotonous or difficult – knowing my reward is ahead! P.S. I am partial to the character of Ruth and I like the comments you made about her. :)

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    • Amy says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:42 am

      Ruthie, I can see why you are partial to Ruth! Seeing as my name is closish to “Amos” I’ve tried to love him especially. Prophecies are harder to track– nothing like a good narrative :)!

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  2. Angie Blattner says

    June 3, 2016 at 10:50 am

    Oh Amy. This blessed my soul so much. I looooove the biblical narrative of carrying on that you did….especially since this is what I’ve been doing in my journal for spiritual direction. Thank you for this.

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    • Amy says

      June 3, 2016 at 2:40 pm

      Really?! I love spiritual serendipity :)

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  3. Tammy Dameron says

    June 3, 2016 at 7:20 pm

    Beautiful Amy. Makes me so thankful for the way God’s Word applies and ministers to my life so intimately, every day, every season and phase of my life… and everyone’s lives! It’s so amazing!!! I’m thinking the charactor and season that currently resonates with me is Caleb as I’m experiencing new responsibilties, opportunities, and challenges. I’m also encouraged by the mysteriousness in Abraham’s assignment and how “following God cannot be reduced to a formula”. Thank you!

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    • Amy says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:43 am

      Too bad there wasn’t a good story of a boy and his dogs in the Bible :). Hugs and prayers as you take on new responsibilities.

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  4. Jody Collins says

    June 4, 2016 at 1:01 pm

    The love story that never ends…so true, Amy. Thank you. Which biblical character do I identify with? Ruth’s story has always resonated with me because of her role in gleaning what others have left behind–“handfuls of purpose”, as someone once said–and that, because of a famine she was moved by God (with her mother-in-law Naomi) to go where the food was. I always see this as a parallel to following the Bread of Life.
    And where did her loyalty and faithfulness lead her? To the lineage of Christ….that always blows me away.

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    • Amy says

      June 7, 2016 at 11:45 am

      Ruth has SO much to teach us. I love her story too — and her faithfulness to change and take risks. You point to the Bread of Life so faithfully Jody!

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